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How To Keep Your Partner Hooked Over The Years
Being in a long-term relationship is a lot of work. You have to invest time, patience, and commitment. At the same time, you need to make sure that your partner doesn’t lose interest. Over time, men and women tend to take things for granted and be less expressive in relationships. If you don’t make conscious efforts to keep the spark alive, the relationship may suffer eventually. Thankfully, you can do little things to keep your partner hooked, no matter how long you have been together. Here are some ideas you can try.
Look good
This one is a no-brainer because no one can resist a good-looking partner. It is easy to overlook your body as you grow older, but it’s the last thing you should do. Have a self-care plan to get in shape and retain your youth over the years. Be well-groomed and try a makeover once in a while to keep them interested. Dress up the way they like, and you will have them waiting for more.
Listen to them
If you want your partner to be hooked on forever, learn to be a good listener. Give attention to their likes and dislikes and go the extra mile to do things accordingly. You will probably think you know them inside out if you have been together for a long time. But not listening means you are taking them for granted, and it is enough to make them drift apart. Show interest during conversations, and they will love you more.
Dare to be different
Long-term relationships often lose their spark as they tend to get boring over time. Being different keeps the interest going, so dare to experiment. Try something new in the kitchen now and then. The bedroom has real scope when it comes to experimentation. Try a new position, a whizzinator, or a crazy conversation to keep your partner hooked and wanting more from you. The more experimental you are, the more they will be around you.
Be spontaneous
Relationship counselors emphasize the value of spontaneity for keeping long-term relationships fresh and exciting. Do things that make them happy, and let them be surprised when they least expect. Routines become a part of life when you are together for years, but they can do more harm than good. Plan a surprise date night, send a naughty text message in a middle of a hectic workday, or ask for spontaneous sex early in the morning.
Nurture your relationship
Being together for the long term requires nurturing relationships, which is possible only if you make a mutual effort. Spend time together to cultivate physical and emotional intimacy because it gets you hooked to each other. Foster trust, understanding, and acceptance. Once you reach that stage, you will be inseparable. At this point, you will not even need to work on staying together.
Being a couple for the long haul requires unconditional love for each other. Although it’s enough to be together forever, a little effort to keep your partner hooked makes them happy and brings you closer.
